Post by tylerstraven on May 21, 2010 22:12:48 GMT -6
So i had a huge fight with my mum long story short she left when i was 3 and my brother 2, she decided to text me yes text me of all things and call me nothing but an asshole like my father well i let 25 years worth of venom go and here is the letter i posted to her today. Ya think i got my point across?
To Carol
To start this off you may notice that I used your name as far as I am concerned you forfeited your right to be called mum along time ago for the last ten year's of my life I have been willing to give you a chance after chance to earn that title and you have systematically gone about it in every imaginable way to destroy any chance of it happening.
You may think that I have no valid reason for this but I can give you one question that I am almost sure you cannot answer when is my birthday Carol you texted me on my birthday and failed miserably to even remember when it was and no getting the right month does not count your supposed to be the person that gave birth to me.
You have a pattern Carol you disappear and reappear every couple of year's and it's always around the same time and then you swan in trying to play mother dearest for about a week then disappear again. It's for this reason that I write this letter and yes your lucky I am even willing to waste my time doing this! NOT for your benefit but mine I have 25 years worth of built up hatred and utter disgust for you that I need to vent.
My dad is a great man it was him who put a roof over my head food in my belly he was there the first time I rode a bike, for the first fish I ever caught,and my first day at school . YOU were there for none of these and yet you see yourself fit to judge a man who raised two boy's on his own. I cant even begin to understand how you would think you have any right what so ever to cast any doubt on his character, when it is plain to everybody else that if there was any character to be brought into question it is your's. My Dad worked full time, looked after us full time, while you lived the easy life, children free, responsibility free and I can testify how hard it is to be a parent actually being there, I can not imagine what it would be like doing it alone, but Dad did he should be praised for that not insulted by the like's of you, as far as I am concerned you are not even fit to breath the same air as him.
For the record it was not Dad or my brother that caused this hatred for you guess what Carol it was you go take a long hard look in the mirror.
Two years ago I had the greatest moment of my life looking into my son's eye's for the first time and you want to know what the first thing was that came to my head, how in the hell could my mother walk away from me and my brother I could never do what you have done just like I could never talk to my son like you have to my brother and I.
That's is the moment I started to despise you but yet I swallowed it for my Son so he could know his Nana and if you think that was easy your wrong I watched you as you had my Son on your knee and played with him and it took every ounce of strength in my body to stop from standing up and slapping you.
I am as you pointed out just like my Dad and you know something I am proud to be just like him and that's why as much as it almost brings spew up into my mouth I am willing to give you the same courtesy that my Dad gave you even thought you slapped it away. I wont mention all your failures and constant lack lustier attempts at being a mum to my son I will do the same as dad has always and continues to do, I wont bad mouth you run you down but I will also not allow you to perpetrate the same act's on him as you have done to my brother and I.
My Son's protection comes first and as far as I am concerned you would only be a hindrance to him and I am not willing to let him get any sort of attachment to you knowing that you are more than likely to commit the same vile act's that you have committed against my brother and I. With that said when he reach's an age were he can make his own decisions then it is his choice but right now my partner and I have made a decision that we think needs to be made and we feel we have no choice but to protect him from you.
I have come to the conclussion that you cannot or unabale to contribute anything of value to my life. That is why as of this letter, i am severing all ties from you. No i wont get over it in a few years like you seem to think will happen, as is shown by your ducking in and out of our lives. I am done with you, I have no intrest what so ever in having anything to do with you as of this moment I am drawing a line in the sand. There is no fifteenth chance for you Carol I was soft i held out hope for you and you might as well have spit in my face. These are my last word's to you Carol, it ends here i move on and continue to build my life with my son and my partner without the burden of hatred for you becuase this chapter in my life is over.
Leonard Craig Kendrick
To Carol
To start this off you may notice that I used your name as far as I am concerned you forfeited your right to be called mum along time ago for the last ten year's of my life I have been willing to give you a chance after chance to earn that title and you have systematically gone about it in every imaginable way to destroy any chance of it happening.
You may think that I have no valid reason for this but I can give you one question that I am almost sure you cannot answer when is my birthday Carol you texted me on my birthday and failed miserably to even remember when it was and no getting the right month does not count your supposed to be the person that gave birth to me.
You have a pattern Carol you disappear and reappear every couple of year's and it's always around the same time and then you swan in trying to play mother dearest for about a week then disappear again. It's for this reason that I write this letter and yes your lucky I am even willing to waste my time doing this! NOT for your benefit but mine I have 25 years worth of built up hatred and utter disgust for you that I need to vent.
My dad is a great man it was him who put a roof over my head food in my belly he was there the first time I rode a bike, for the first fish I ever caught,and my first day at school . YOU were there for none of these and yet you see yourself fit to judge a man who raised two boy's on his own. I cant even begin to understand how you would think you have any right what so ever to cast any doubt on his character, when it is plain to everybody else that if there was any character to be brought into question it is your's. My Dad worked full time, looked after us full time, while you lived the easy life, children free, responsibility free and I can testify how hard it is to be a parent actually being there, I can not imagine what it would be like doing it alone, but Dad did he should be praised for that not insulted by the like's of you, as far as I am concerned you are not even fit to breath the same air as him.
For the record it was not Dad or my brother that caused this hatred for you guess what Carol it was you go take a long hard look in the mirror.
Two years ago I had the greatest moment of my life looking into my son's eye's for the first time and you want to know what the first thing was that came to my head, how in the hell could my mother walk away from me and my brother I could never do what you have done just like I could never talk to my son like you have to my brother and I.
That's is the moment I started to despise you but yet I swallowed it for my Son so he could know his Nana and if you think that was easy your wrong I watched you as you had my Son on your knee and played with him and it took every ounce of strength in my body to stop from standing up and slapping you.
I am as you pointed out just like my Dad and you know something I am proud to be just like him and that's why as much as it almost brings spew up into my mouth I am willing to give you the same courtesy that my Dad gave you even thought you slapped it away. I wont mention all your failures and constant lack lustier attempts at being a mum to my son I will do the same as dad has always and continues to do, I wont bad mouth you run you down but I will also not allow you to perpetrate the same act's on him as you have done to my brother and I.
My Son's protection comes first and as far as I am concerned you would only be a hindrance to him and I am not willing to let him get any sort of attachment to you knowing that you are more than likely to commit the same vile act's that you have committed against my brother and I. With that said when he reach's an age were he can make his own decisions then it is his choice but right now my partner and I have made a decision that we think needs to be made and we feel we have no choice but to protect him from you.
I have come to the conclussion that you cannot or unabale to contribute anything of value to my life. That is why as of this letter, i am severing all ties from you. No i wont get over it in a few years like you seem to think will happen, as is shown by your ducking in and out of our lives. I am done with you, I have no intrest what so ever in having anything to do with you as of this moment I am drawing a line in the sand. There is no fifteenth chance for you Carol I was soft i held out hope for you and you might as well have spit in my face. These are my last word's to you Carol, it ends here i move on and continue to build my life with my son and my partner without the burden of hatred for you becuase this chapter in my life is over.
Leonard Craig Kendrick
